Active informed consent at all times
 

No means no - from joining in a conversation to anything that happens once the playroom doors are open. Keep asking, keep checking in, and remember it can be taken away at any time.
ASK to chat

ASK to watch

ASK to join in
ASK ASK ASK.

Venues may have different rules, please respect them. We also expect your discretion. Please be careful where you park, don't leave loads of mess everywhere, ABSOLUTELY NO chewing gum, and respect the neighbours when leaving. Simple stuff.

You can change when you arrive at the venue. We don't have a dress code, but men - make an effort! Dress to impress, anyone in dirty/paint stained/smelly clothes will not be admitted, and we will not give refunds. You're welcome to dress in anything from fetish/kink gear, to smart casual clothing. 

NO TRACKSUITS/JOGGERS.

Do not come with a list of things YOU want someone to do to you. This is about having fun and exploration, NOT fulfilling your fantasy. If you want someone to do particular things to you, hire a sex-worker. 

Our lockers are small, and can only hold phones so please do not bring anything of high value. You can leave clothing in the communal areas, but they will be unattended.

For safety sake, we will need a valid proof of I.D and address. Bills, drivers license etc. These will all be kept fully confidential, and this is a prerequisite for most events of this nature. You will be able to send them online before the event.

We all have different tastes, and our adult events are judgement free zones.
You do not know someone's limits, rules or relationship. Let them play.

If you come with a partner, make sure you agree your rules first and then actually stick to them. Whilst your couple drama is unbelievably entertaining to watch, we would still prefer it if you just had A Nice Time. 

No being totally off your face. A few drinks to limber up is fine, but you can't give informed consent if you're totally wrecked. Same for drugs...plus they make you make you boring. NO SMOKING OUTSIDE THE HOUSE.
 

There are also plenty of reasonably priced hotels nearby. As you're able to bring your own booze, and you can get hotels much cheaper than central London, the cost works out cheaper than a normal Club Indulge.

Phones and devices must be kept out of all areas. We keep a strict 'What happens at the party stays at the party, so please lock up your phones or keep them in your rooms.

Condoms will be available, and you should always  bring your own if you need a specific type. No excuses. Anyone breaking this rule without prior consent is liable to criminal prosecution. Safe sex by default, and absolutely no 'stealthing' midway.

Don't be that dick. Non-negotiable. You're here to have fun with a variety of people, and you getting the hump will do you no favours.

We have plenty of fridge space, and no bar so you'll save money by bringing your own booze and snacks. YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO BUY BOOZE AT THE VENUE, but we will have a limited range of soft drinks. 
 

...unless you break a rule. 

Please do not discuss anyone's sexual proclivities, or indulgences or discuss who was at an event. People's relationships are different, and some folks may be coming who need some discretion. We also know that our minds and relationships can change, as well as your enthusiasm for events like this. If you are heard gossiping, you will not be permitted to another indulge event. Extreme privacy at all times!